Hey everyone, my name is Cheyenne. I am 19 years old and currently a single mother from Alabama. Well it all began back in the month of April. I had my monthly on April 10th, 2009. I had sex with my baby daddy from then till I was around three months preggo! Well, when May 6th rolled around and no period I didn't even realize that it had not come. Then by the 12th I realized it should have been done came and gone! I went to the dollar general and bought two pregnancy tests... I went back home and took one, it almost immediately said positive. I cried for like two minutes and then said no it can't be, it must be some awful mistake. I left the house and went to a friends house. I talked to them for a while and then left and went back home. I did not see my boyfriend till the next day and still I could not tell him... Then May 14th rolled around, (by the way this is my birthday) and I turned 19. I was super stressed out and went ahead and took the other pregnancy test. It was still positive!! Well I smoked religiously, so of course I went and bought me a pack of ciggs.(This was actually the last pack I smoked!) I smoked like a freight train and went over different ways to tell the baby daddy he got me knocked up... Well that night,around 9, my friend that I had already told decided to hint to my man that I was pregnant. He turned a ghost white and waited till she walked off. He called me outside and asked me what she was talking about. I said "What do you think she was talking about?" He just gave me a look like he could kill me for being sarcastic at a time like this..lol I told him I was preggo and he said what the hell does that mean? I laughed and said it means pregnant dumbass... He turned even whiter, if thats even possible, and walked off... I decided to leave and take my friend home(which seriously got cussed out). I came back and went next door to my house. Oh yeah, did I mention his mother lived next door to me! Yeah fun! Well I didn't want to face his mother so I just didn't go back. His sister came next door and told me their mom wanted to talk to me and that she wasn't mad or anything. Did I also mention she can be a really big bitch! As scared as I was I went next door. She told me she wasn't mad but that she wanted a paternity test done after the baby was born.. That seriously pissed me off. She acted like I didn't know who my baby daddy was. Like I was some kind of big whore or something. But anyways, I digress...
Everything went well for about the first three months of my pregnancy. Then in July I had to move out of the town we were currently living in. I only moved about thirty minutes away from there. And everything was fine for two weeks, then he decided he didn't want a long distance relationship. I cried at first and then decided I didn't want to put any stress on my baby. So I dried the tears up and moved on. While I decided on that, the baby daddy decided to tell all of his friends and mine that the baby was not his. Of course, all of them called, texted, or emailed me the moment they had the chance. I in turn told the baby daddy that this was fine with me and that I would take care of our child myself. That he had nothing to worry about anymore! Anyways, I went September the 2nd and found out I was having a little girl. Which is exactly what I wanted. A little me instead of a little him. Lol! The weeks rolled on and come October and my next OB appointment, I got bad news... I had placenta previa... Well this can be very bad for a pregnant women, especially one that was so hell bent on not having a c-section. The dr scheduled another U/S for October 26th... It came and then went. Then my next ob appointment... It showed the best news that I knew of.. NO more placenta previa..WOOHOOO!!!! Well no more surprises came until I was 35 weeks pregnant. I went into labor.(of course, this was after having sex,with baby daddy, and moving again!) Wow the sex thing really works! LMAO! That and nothing like lifting heavy boxes... Yeah, yeah I know, NO LIFTING HEAVY BOXES WHILE PREGNANT!!! but in my offense they didn't weigh over 10 lbs a piece just for this reason!!!
The hospital stopped my labor with a shot and some pills. I couldn't take the pills due to high heart rate... but it successfully stopped my labor with the shot... I went home upset that I didn't have a baby in my arms. I went on through Christmas then New Years... NO BABY YET!!!! Then January came and I knew she would be here this month! My due date was set for January 16th and it was getting closer. Well my mom got a stomach flu in the beginning of Jan. Of course I got it as well! They ended up putting me in the hospital because I couldn't keep any food or liquids in me as they were coming out both ends... They admitted me and hooked me up to an IV with lots of fluids and antibiotics.. This was on Tuesday January 5th,2010... On Thursday afternoon I started having contractions.(the mild ones that don't dialate you, aka braxton hicks) These were not painful just annoying. Then at about 5am Friday morning I could feel them in my cervix.. I knew these were the real deal....
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Pregnancy-First Month to Last Month
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